It would be nice if a little bell rang inside your heart when you find your other half, but that isn’t the case. The reality is that it’s hard to know whether you’re with the right person or not. The following five signs may reveal that you have found your other half.
1. A Sense of Peace
A big sign you’ve found the right person is this sense of peace you can’t find in other relationships. The right person is going to make you feel like you can finally relax and be yourself. You won’t feel like you have to be “on” all the time. The right person is going to give you the freedom to just let loose and be comfortable.
It’s important to keep in mind that it’s not all about you either. Your partner should feel the same way about you. He or she shouldn’t feel the need to try harder. The person needs to feel as comfortable as you are in the relationship. Analyze your past relationships, and you’ll notice that peace isn’t always there, but it will be with the right person.
2. A Natural Sense of Balance
Another sign you might want to look out for involves balance. When you’ve found the right person, he or she will balance you out. It’s okay to admit that you might go overboard sometimes, or you might not do enough in certain situations. The right person is going to balance some of those things out.
If you happen to be an introvert, the other person will be more extroverted, just the right amount to bring you out of your shell but not enough to make you uncomfortable. It’s not just about what they bring to the table though. A Twin Flame relationship coach will point out that you have to bring something to the table, too. For example, if your partner isn’t great at reading social cues but you seem to excel at that, you’ll fit like a glove.
3. The Worst Doesn’t Change a Thing
In a relationship, you’re bound to see every side of a person. In the beginning, you might get the filtered version of the person you’re dating, but that won’t last for too long. If you’ve gone far enough to see some of these other aspects of the person you’re dating, try to gauge your emotions afterward.
If you can see the worst this person can do and still love this person, then you’ve got a big sign that you might have found the right person. Keep in mind that this goes both ways. The person you’re dating should be able to see the worst side of you and still love you the same way. Getting past each other’s flaws is a big step in any relationship, so don’t ignore it.
4. Naturally Enrich Each Other
When you’ve met the right person, that person is going to enrich your life somehow, and you’ll do the same. Growth is a natural part of life, and the right person is going to find ways to help you grow. This isn’t done to change you though. If someone is trying to change you, then that’s a red flag.
Promoting growth is good. Your partner may indirectly help you grow, but it’s still you and you alone who sees the light. The same thing goes for your partner. For some reason, you’ve inspired this person to reach higher and to be a better version of themselves.
5. You Feel Something in Your Gut
Finding the right one is going to turn something on inside you that you won’t be able to define easily, but you’ll still recognize it. You’ll know you’ve found the right person because something in your gut is telling you that you’ve done so. It’s going to be hard to differentiate this feeling from infatuation, but if you’re feeling this and seeing the aforementioned signs, then you’ve got something.
This feeling is going to make you feel like this relationship has lasted longer than it has. You’re going to feel a sense of familiarity with this person. The person you’re dating is going to feel the same way. Confirm that your partner feels the same because there is such a thing as unrequited love.
Now, you know five reliable signs that you’ve found your other half. Finding the right one is hard, but when you do find the right one, all the disappointments will melt away in the face of happiness.