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As a parent, there’s a lot that you need to get right when it comes to supporting your child and being there for them at all times. It’s up to you to make sure that your kids are supported and feel able to explore their interests in a way that works for them and offers them the freedom and options they need.


It is a difficult balancing act to strike though; there’s no doubt about that. We’re going to discuss some of the tips and ideas that you might want to make use of as you do your best to support your kids with their own individual interests and hobbies, so read on and find out more.

Encourage Curiosity

First of all, you need to encourage your kids to be curious and be willing to try new things. It might sound like something that’s pretty obvious, but if your kids aren’t being curious, they’ll never find the things that they truly love and enjoy most of all. So even if they’re a little shy and don’t like coming out of their shell, it makes sense to encourage them to be curious and try things outside their comfort zone.

Know How Much Involvement is Too Much

As a parent, you want to be there to support your child and you might also want to get involved so they feel safe and secure. But you don’t want to involve yourself too much that it starts to become off-putting for them, especially as they get a little older. There is such a thing as too much involvement and sometimes you just need to take a step back and give them a little space sometimes.

Don’t Put Any Pressure on Them

It’s best not to put any unnecessary pressure on them. This is something that lots of people get wrong. Just because you or other members of your family might share a certain hobby, that doesn’t necessarily mean that your kids will. You won’t achieve anything positive by putting pressure on them to enjoy a certain thing. Let them have the freedom to explore and try new things, and ultimately find their own way. That’s what’ll be best for them in the long run.

Show an Interest in What Interests Them

There’s nothing wrong with showing an interest though. You never know; you might even develop a new interest of your own as a result of their interest. You should at least gain a surface level understanding of the things that interest them so you can hold a communication and show them that you are making an effort with them. It’s one of the small things that can make a pretty big difference.

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Assist Them with Finding Helpful Resources When You Can’t Help Them Directly

You can be there to assist them in so many different ways. Don’t think that you can’t do anything just because they have a hobby or interest that you don’t know much about. For example, if they’re showing an interest in playing an instrument and you don’t know the first thing about any of that, you can find books and websites like restartguitar.com that you can point them towards. You can be helpful in so many different ways.

Come Up with Day Trips Based Around Their Developing Interests

As a parent, you’ll want to spend as much quality time with your child as possible, and that’s why it’s so important that you understand their developing interests. You can ensure your day trips and family activities are sometimes based around the things that they’re now developing an interest in. Try to come up with days out that they’ll enjoy because they’re relevant to their new interests in some way.

Simply Be There

Simply being there and cheering them on from the sidelines can be the most important things in the world as a parent. Showing your kids that you’re there and that you support them with whatever they choose to do in life can be the most liberating and freeing feeling of all for your child. It could be exactly what they need to hear; being present is not something to dismiss as unimportant.

Being a supportive parent isn’t as easy as it might sound. There’s a lot that you need to think about and it’s important to find the balance between being supportive and there for them while not coming across as too demanding or overbearing. The last thing they need is expectations weighing them down.

By Erica Buteau

Change Agent. Daydream Believer. Maker. Creative. Likes love, peace and Jeeping. Dislikes winter, paper cuts and war. She/Her/Hers.

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