As an adult, there are many things you now have to take care of yourself. You can no longer rely on your parents for important things like managing your money, getting to bed on time, or making appointments for you. Doing this on your own isn’t as hard as you might think it is if you stay disciplined and motivated.

Setting Your Own Bedtime

Getting enough sleep each night is important to your overall health. Your body restores itself while you sleep. Have a set bedtime each night. Be sure to give yourself enough time to fall asleep, sleep for plenty of time, and wake up without rushing. Avoid eating food or using electronic devices like your phone or computer for at least one hour before bedtime. This will help you fall asleep quicker.

Notice what kind of sleeping environment helps you get comfortable and stay asleep throughout the night. Many people enjoy cool, dark rooms as their ideal sleeping environment. Start with what works for others and then make adjustments as necessary to better suit your needs.

Paying Your Own Bills

It sounds easy, but there is a lot of work that goes into paying bills. Make a list of your monthly expenses. Compare this to how much you make. The difference between the two is what you will have left over for fun stuff and savings opportunities. Be sure to put a little in a savings account each month in case of emergencies.

Many services will allow you to set billing to auto-pay. This is convenient if they charge hefty late fees but can easily get away from you. Be sure to check in with your finances regularly. Make sure you know when and how much money you are spending on necessities like rent or mortgage; health and auto insurance; utilities, car payments; and more. You should also keep track of any extra expenses you have regularly like streaming and entertainment services, groceries, gym memberships, and more. This will allow you to create a realistic budget and savings plan for each month and help you know what expenses you should cut out or cut back on.


It is important to properly take care of yourself in order to have a healthy life. This applies to taking care of your own health beyond visiting a general healthcare provider. Self-care includes getting enough rest, eating the right foods, exercising, and caring for your mental health.

Doing things for yourself and your own happiness falls under self-care. Don’t be afraid to invest in you. Take an extra-long bath to relax and unwind. Treat yourself to dinner and a movie just because. Pick up a hobby that brings you joy. Taking the time to make yourself happy will help you feel satisfaction and fulfillment in your life.

If you find you need some help or have long-term issues, seek help from a mental health professional.

Making Medical Appointments

Calling a doctor’s office to make medical appointments can be intimidating for the first-timer, but it is important not to let fear keep you from your routine check-ups. These annual visits with medical personnel including general practice physicians, general dentistry professionals, and more keep you healthy inside and out by spotting problems early on.

When calling a medical office to schedule an appointment, you simply need to tell them who you are and what you need to schedule. They will walk you through the rest. Insurance information and payment methods are typically discussed in person. Be sure to have your calendar and your ideal appointment times on hand so the scheduling process doesn’t become lengthy for anyone.

Managing Your Time

As an adult, it is up to you to manage your time properly. You need to schedule time for sleep, exercise, and healthy meals each day. With work and obligations taking up so much time, it is often difficult to find time to do what you love, run errands, and develop relationships. This doesn’t mean to avoid free time completely. It is important in order to give yourself a chance to unwind.

By keeping a schedule and planning out your week in advance, you can take full advantage of and become more efficient with the time you do have. Learning time management isn’t always a skill we learn in school. However, when you see how many things you’d like to be doing now that you have the ability to do them, you realize how important it is.

Once you get comfortable doing things for yourself, you will be able to enjoy being an independent adult. Self-discipline is the key. Being able to do simple tasks for yourself will lead to a healthier and happier life.